I've been gone for quite a while...I apologize....I have my reasons and this post will explain some of them....I intend for this to be my only post on the subject, because my emotions are still too raw....the pain still too much....
On September 11, 2001, I was at home...glued to the television, crying....my boys were ,at the time, both 1....because it was exactly one month until T's 2nd birthday....
I remember being angry, and hurt, and feeling my heart break for all those who lost their lives that day...and for the families they left behind....and feeling a sense of gratefulness for those who became heroes that day....Every year I still say a prayer of thanks....for all that they did....and a prayer for all the families....who's lives were forever changed on that day...
This year was different....I still said my prayers....but this year, my family was included in my prayers....you see, because of that day, nine years ago....we were burying a loved on.....on the anniversary of that fateful day....
this is my nephew (more accurately, The Man's nephew...but family is family...be it by blood or marriage)...
Bryn Todd
he was 20 yrs. old.....he was killed on August 28, 2010 in Afghanistan when an RPG went through the driver's side window of the vehicle he was driving....Also killed in that incident Captain Ellery Wallace (who left behind a wife and 4 children...say a prayer for them, please)....2 others were injured....
he had just been visiting on leave a few weeks before....I feel blessed in the fact that I was able to give him one last hug....share one last laugh....
Bryn was a fun loving, energetic, outdoorsy young man....always quick with a smile, joke, or other kind word....he liked making people happy....he joined the army, following in his grandfather's footsteps....My FIL was a Korean War vet....they now rest side by side....
Bryn was an MP.....he loved his job....he was selfless, helpful, and never complained...
he gave his life protecting his country, his family, his fellow man....
On September 9, 2010....we welcomed him home...our hero....
the rain that preceded his arrival made it seem as if the heavens were mourning with us....the downpour was heavy, and brutal....and delayed his flight by 3 hours....once the plane arrived, the rain began to subside....and by the time the procession left for the funeral home, it was a sprinkle...
We were honored to have the Patriot Guard Riders with us on Sept. 9, 10, and 11.....they led the way, stood with flags at the funeral home, church, and cemetery, and rode in front of the procession on Saturday....Thank you to all who rode...
if you are unfamiliar with the Patriot Guard Riders please go here....
http://www.patriotguard.org/
this flag was flown by the fire department at Bryn's funeral....that is his cousin and grandmother in the picture (I think she smiled because she saw me with the camera...lol)
many people lined the sides of the road to pay their respects as we rode to the cemetery....I was in awe of how many people showed their support on the 9th and the 11th....thank you all...
there were marquees in town and the other communities along the way to the cemetery....I think this one sums it up as best as anyone can....
and this one as well....
he was laid to rest next to his Grandfather...Sgt. Kenneth W. Raver
His service was touching...it honored Bryn, his faith, and his country.....his medals were given to his father and his 3 yr.old daughter, as well as the flags....
Written above where Bryn slept in Afghanistan was this quote....
“You can always live in fear, sometimes you have to face the unknown.”
Thank you Bryn for facing the unknown....thank you for your selflessness, courage, love, and sacrifice....we love you....we miss you....
thank you to everyone who is fighting for our freedom or has a loved one who is fighting....our freedom isn't free....it is paid for with blood, sweat, and tears....
This Friday, the 17th....would have been Bryn's 21st birthday....so many of our soldiers over there are just boys/girls, really...so young....so remember them in your prayers....pray for those who are fighting....for those who have sacrificed their lives in the fight....for those who will soon be in the fight....you never know who will make it home....
Love you Bryn....miss you....I will see you again some day....